#tweetsays: Choosing a Bride for your Wedding – Would you marry someone if you knew they couldn’t have kids?

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This is a loaded question. If you want to have your own brood, then you would need to marry someone who can have kids.  However, if you just want kids like Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt, then after your wedding, you could adopt kids who need love and attention and raise them as your own.  This would make it irrelevant if your partner can have your biological kids.  If you don’t care to have kids at all, then it wouldn’t matter because the marriage would be held together with mutual respect, friendship, love and commitment to each other until death makes the separation.

Having kids adds it own challenges to a marriage and it is a decision that should be mutually agreed upon, prior to the wedding, whether or not you can have biological or adopted kids together.  The perspective that I am bringing to bear on this question is that it is not a unilateral decision that one person makes in a marriage.  Therefore, a serious discussion should ensue, prior to setting a wedding date with someone, if you want to have your own biological kids so that the true picture can unravel.

I have witnessed childless couples live happy, meaningful and fulfilled lives so it is not always a necessary component of a good marriage.  There is a different perspective to this question and demonstrate that a marriage can be just as fulfilling and committed without kids.

Some sources claim the cost of raising a child from birth to seventeen is over $200,000 – this may be enough to make a husband and wife rethink the importance of having children.

#tweetsays: can we aim to always love no matter what life throws at us!

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#tweetsays: my wedding day is organized chaos

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One of my girlfriends told me that the best wedding is a destination wedding.  When I asked her why, she said you avoid all the organized chaos that is your wedding day.

No wedding planners to hire, no caterers, no florists, no booking the church and the priest.  You just show up and look beautiful in your wedding dress on your wedding day.

#tweetsays: It is better to be born lucky than born rich because “luck” can bring you riches.

It is better to be born lucky than born rich because “luck” can bring you riches.

Are you lucky or do you feel lucky?  Then you could become rich one day from buying some lottery or simply by visiting an Atlantic City casino.

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Remember a new life begins on your wedding day but if you keep a sense of humor, you’ll make it a life long journey of constant updates.

#tweetsays: Don’t let anyone live rent-free in your mind

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Don’t let anyone live rent-free in your mind – try to live by this philosophy and see how much better you’ll feel.

Are you mentally pre-occupied with thoughts of someone whom you deeply resent?

You are hurting you, not them so evict them from your space immediately.

Remember a new life begins on your wedding day but if you keep a sense of humor, you’ll make it a life long journey of constant updates.

#tweetsays: No one wants to die – Steve Jobs.  Even people who want to go to heaven don’t want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share.

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Remember a new life begins on your wedding day but if you keep a sense of humor, you’ll make it a life long journey of constant updates.

#tweetsays: Don’t worry, be happy in every life we have some trouble when you worry you make it double - Bob Marley.

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Remember a new life begins on your wedding day but if you keep a sense of humor, you’ll make it a life long journey of constant updates.

#tweetsays: Imagine what you want daily and make plans to get it – a new house, great job whatever keep the thoughts in your mind always.

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#tweetsays: Listen to Lady Gaga – “Don’t you ever let a soul in the world tell you that you can’t be exactly who you are.”

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Remember a new life begins on your wedding day but if you keep a sense of humor, you’ll make it a life long journey of constant updates.

#tweetsays: Kevin Bacon is right – Key to a successful marriage is keep sex dirty and fights clean.

Remember a new life begins on your wedding day but if you keep a sense of humor, you’ll make it a life long journey of constant updates.

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Marriage is hard work so keep constantly working on your relationship and have a healthy love life.